I will never understand why
people feel the need to feel sorry for a mom who has 2 or more of the same
gender of children, what is there to feel sorry for when you have healthy happy
children, there are so many woman out there struggling to conceive or who don’t
even get the chance to have a baby and would give anything to have a baby no
matter the gender.
Here are the top 5 worst things
people have said to me since I became a mom of my third boy….
I bet you wanted a girl- urm no
we wanted a baby
Were you trying for a girl- no we
wanted a healthy baby
Oh they must be a handful- and
girls aren’t?
Don’t you ever get tired of dirt
and rough housing- no actually don’t you get tired of playing princess and
ponies…
Will you keep trying for a girl-
no why would we; we have 3 healthy amazing kids.
At the end of the day after 5
losses I am just incredibly grateful to have any children at all but I have
more than that I have 3 incredible healthy happy beautiful souls who have been
my greatest gifts and treasures and who fill my life with such joy I cannot
begin to explain even through the tough times I will always be grateful that I
was given the gift of motherhood because it is a gift and I truly believe that
we are blessed with the amount of children and genders we are supposed to have-
I will not lie there have been times when I have thought ah little girls are
cute and ah wouldn’t it be nice to play dress up but you know what I have my
friends little girls to spoil and coo over when I feel the need for some girlishness and I am happy with that- I am a mom of boys and I wouldn’t have it
any other way…
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